Health
You can find love at workplace: Survey
New Delhi, Feb 9
Can office be the place for
finding love? If one goes by a survey, many workers are attracted to
people who work in similar jobs as them.
Ahead of Valentine's
Day, online jobs site CareerBuilder.in's annual survey on office romance
found that 36 percent of Indian workers have dated someone who worked
for the same company, and 37 percent said they went on to marry the
person.
The national survey was conducted online in January 2015
and included a representative sample of 1,000 full-time workers across
industries and company sizes.
While 56 percent of the workers
said they were attracted to people who work in similar jobs as them, for
some, office romances can be potentially career risky. Of those who
have had an office romance, 55 percent have dated their boss, and around
68 per cent workers have admitted to dating someone in a higher
position than them.
Also, 34 percent of those surveyed have had an affair with a co-worker where one person involved was married at the time.
Secrecy is an issue.
In
days when social media networking is on a high, 71 percent of the
workers said they have had to keep their office romance a secret,
although 72 per cent have accidentally run into co-workers while out on a
date with their office sweetheart.
Tips for handling a workplace romance:
*
Check the company handbook: Some companies have strict policies around
office romances. Acquaint yourself with the rules before turning a
professional relationship into a personal one.
* Proceed with
caution: Some romances lead to marriage, but others can lead to
disaster. Seven percent of workers reported having to leave their jobs
because of an office romance that soured. Take the time to get to know
someone first and carefully weigh risks and benefits.
*
Compartmentalise: Keep your work life separate from your home life.
Avoid public display of affection in the office and don’t involve
co-workers in personal disagreements.
* Think before you post: Be
careful what you post on social media. You can end up spilling the
beans on your relationship before you’re ready to discuss it.